Part 1: After engaging in a 15 minute conversation not being
allowed to use any version of a symbolic language I discovered many things…
1. Did I find this experiment difficult or easy?
I found this experiment incredible
difficult! I was basically one hundred percent unable to get anything across
during my attempt to communicate. Not being able to use verbal language was
close to impossible. Yes, I could point and use very minimal hand motions but
it was a bit frustrating not being able to be understood and wanting to answer
my partner’s (my mom’s) questions and make her understand me in return.
2. What were the impressions of partners in the
conversation? Did they alter their way of communicating with me because of my absence
of symbolic communication?
I’m going to admit there was much
frustration but we actually ended up laughing about it most of the time. My mom
told me I basically looked like a “baboon” ( those were her exact words…) and
we couldn’t stop laughing at my attempts to tell her what I wanted to eat in
the kitchen and how I wanted her to make it for me. She was not using very much
speech back to me since she knew it wouldn’t really do anything since I was
unable to communicate back in response using verbal speech. She felt like she
had to slow down her mode of communication as if I did not understand because
in fact, I did not understand at all and neither did she when I was trying to
work with her.
` 3. Imagine that me and my partners in the
conversation represent two different cultures meeting for the first time. Which
culture has the advantage in communicating complex ideas? What attitudes might
the speaking culture have toward the culture that does not use symbolic
language? Identify individuals in our culture that have difficulty
communicating with spoken language and explore how that affects how those who
do speak interact with those individuals?
If my mom and I were from two different
cultures in this situation, I think that she would have the advantage because
she was able to use symbolic language and I was unable. Even if both of us were
able to speak the same language, she would still have the advantage. I do
believe though that if we were to do this for a longer period and truly be in
the situation of having no way of communication and not make-believe, then I
would slowly start to understand and pick up on the symbolic language she was
using. I think that the speaking culture is more likely to have impatience and
bad attitudes thinking they communicate better and are more intellectual toward
the one that cannot use symbolic language. Nowadays, there is a large range of
people that cannot communicate like the rest of us. There are those that have
the loss of hearing and are deaf, those that cannot see and are blind, those
that have mental disabilities and handicaps and have difficulty with intellect,
those with learning disabilities, and people with damaged vocal chords and loss
of voice, etc. I think it is so difficult for every single individual that
suffers with these disabilities and cannot imagine how hard it must be for them
to live their everyday lives. What is neat is that those who are normal and
have the ability to hear and see while communicating effectively have the
resources to help those that cannot. Sometimes it’s sad to see “normal” people
treat these people with communication disabilities differently and sometimes
rudely and impatiently… I tend to get upset when I see it. But after going
through this experiment I kind of understand why it can be frustrating,
although that is no excuse to make it known to another who is not privileged
with the gift of communication.
Part 2: After spending 15 minutes
communicating without physical embellishments, I found that this was pretty
much impossible.
1.
Was I able to last for the full 15 minutes of
using only speech for communicating? What made this experiment difficult for me?
I was hardly about to last the full 15 minutes, in fact I cut it about a
minute short since I could hardly take it. The most difficult part was not necessarily being able to vocalize my
communication but it was the hardest to not be able to use hand motions or body
movements. I felt so uncomfortable and helpless trying to communicate.
2.
How was my mom in this part of the experiment
affected by my communication limitations?
My mom was very inclined the first few minutes – I believe she liked the
challenge and believed it was fun at the beginning kind of like a game getting
to figure out the end goal of what I was trying to say…but about 7 minutes into
it, she grew rather annoyed and frustrated since she was completely unable to
get anything out of what I was trying to tell her. She got bored pretty quickly
and had to “suffer” through the rest of the 15 minutes.
3.
What does this experiment say about our use of
“signs” in our language? How important is non-speech language techniques in our
ability to communicate effectively?
I developed an ever greater appreciation of the fact that the use of
“signs” in the human language is in fact a blessing. Body communication apart
from verbal communication is very helpful. It gets the point across when words
or other ways of communication cannot. Many humans are visual people and visual
learners (myself included) and it helps me a lot when I can see visually what
someone is trying to communicate to me. It is very important in our ability to
communicate effectively in that it helps those that cannot hear or understand
in spoken communication understand fully visually through body/sign language.
4.
Are there people that have difficulty reading
body language? Describe the adaptive benefit to possessing the ability to read
body language. Can you describe environmental conditions where there might be a
benefit to not reading body language?
I
believe that there are many people who have difficulty being able to ready body
language and body communication particularly when it comes to people who are
auditory learners or people who may come from a different cultural background
or foreign nature. The adaptive benefit to possessing the ability to ready body
language is a better way of understanding communication altogether. Speech and
body language provide the means for one to fully understand without getting
confused. There may be a benefit to not being able to read body language in a
situation such as when you’re giving a public speech that is significant to you
individually (giving the speech). Not being aware of the lack of attention from
the audience through body language will play off as a positive thing in this
situation since the speech-giver would be unable to understand that their
speech may be boring or of zero significance to those that are supposed to be
listening and learning.


